Meaning, I normally take that which I hold in my hands - faith, family, friends, writing, photography and so on - and try to adjust these things to suit the insecure, fearful, timid me. Now, however, I'm adjusting the characteristics born in me of insecurity, fear and timidity, in order to live a life that not only embraces the things I hold in my hand but enjoy them, also.
And I must say, living this way causes me a great deal less stress and frustration!
It's a wonder you can't hear my sigh of relief...
:)